“Energetic orgasms can be an extremely spiritual experience, giving you a sense of the forces of creation moving through you, a sense of going beyond the body/mind, reminding you of who you are beyond your everyday reality…” -Annie Sprinkle, How to have energetic orgasms

The brain is an amazing organ. In fact, the brain could be called the largest “sexual” organ. Why? Because orgasm begins in the brain, which controls the release of chemicals that trigger arousal, creating physical changes in the body that prepare us for sexual pleasure and make orgasm possible. If the brain isn’t aroused, it can’t process sexual stimulation, so the genitals won’t be aroused either. No orgasm.

Even more amazing, some women can orgasm just by thinking about it. If true! I recently interviewed a friend of mine, Kim Airs, who can orgasm just by thinking about it. She calls it “thinking,” a play on words, I’m sure. Seriously, some doctors in a lab put her in an MRI machine just so they could watch her brain’s response during orgasm. Look, mom, no hands! They were amazed as they could see her brain lighting up just as she was climaxing.

So, Kim is just a freak of nature, right? Actually, she is not alone. Many women have mastered a technique known as the Breath-Energy Orgasm or Breath of Fire Orgasm.

So how do I do it?

In Tantra practice, people use the flow of energy in the body to achieve heightened states of arousal. They do this by using their breath and channeling the energy through their Chakras.

The chakras are wheel-shaped whorls of energy or “force centers” that rotate from the central points of the body, which are receptive to the transmission of energies. The body has seven chakras, starting at the base of the spine and moving up to the head. along the spine.

You can control the flow of energy throughout your body to experience energetic full-body orgasms. An energy orgasm can be very powerful or quite subtle, depending on how much energy you build up. The more energy you build up, the stronger the sensations you will receive.

Annie Sprinkle describes the experience of an energetic orgasm as “electricity shoots through your entire body” leaving you “high, euphoric and dizzy”. Energetic orgasms can help a woman become more orgasmic and multi-orgasmic.

How to Do the Fire Breathing Orgasm Technique

Begin by lying down in a comfortable position with your knees bent. Breathe deeply and easily, letting the tension drain out of you. Empty your mind.

Once you have established deep, rhythmic breathing, continue to deepen your breath by inhaling through your nose and exhaling through your mouth. Allow your breath to become continuous, using the circular breathing method, in which you don’t stop between inhalations and exhalations.

As you inhale, move your pelvis by arching your lower back. As you exhale, push your pelvis and hips toward the ceiling while flattening your belly. Squeeze your PC muscle as you exhale, then release it as you inhale to stimulate your clitoris and G-spot, while pumping sexual energy throughout your body. Repeat continuously, allowing yourself to feel erotic as your legs open and close loosely and naturally.

“Energy follows thought”, so as you breathe deeply imagine that you are drawing energy from “the earth/atmosphere” into your sexual center represented by the lower Chakra: the genitals. Imagine the energy building a strong glow in the sexual organs that turns into a warm fire.

Next, begin drawing that erotic fire into the second chakra, which is the navel. Think of your spine as a conduit to direct that energy through your body. Feel the energy build up in your navel until it too begins to glow brightly. Imagine the energy traveling from your genitals to your navel and back in a complete circular circuit. Once you have stabilized the flow, draw the energy into your third chakra, the solar plexus, and back down into your mouth, transforming that energy into a blazing fire. Continue up the body/spine to the next fourth chakra, the heart, circulating the energy from the belly to the heart. Continue breathing, rocking your pelvis and contracting your PC muscle.

As you build up the energy and move it to the fifth chakra, the throat, allow the sexual sounds and moans to be released from your throat. If the sounds do not come automatically, consciously make sounds as you open your energetic throat. Keep circulating up through the Chakras, until you feel the energy move into the Third Eye or 6th Chakra. Again build this energy as before, allowing the energy to flow from the throat to the third eye and back again.

Finally, continue to pull the energy up through your body until you reach your seventh and final Chakra, the skull or top of the head. Draw the energy up through the genitals, through the body and spine, to the crown of the head and back in a continuous cycle, expanding outward from your root center (the genitals) in a sphere, encompassing your entire being. , until you feel the energy shoot up. from the top of your head like a fountain of water.

You may feel a floating sensation or feel your body engulfed by the waves. Let yourself be rocked by these feelings until they dissipate. Do whatever comes naturally: scream, moan, melt, laugh hysterically, float, and ride the waves of orgasm. Don’t worry if you don’t experience these feelings at first, as it may take more practice until you can achieve a full-body orgasm.

These may sound like difficult techniques, but you can become adept at this and do it almost naturally with practice and visualization. Be patient and keep practicing. For some people this will be easy, while others may need years of practice until they can release enough to release those energies. But if you really want to learn to “think” like Kim Airs, then the time it takes to master this technique will certainly be worth it.

Just think of the possibilities: on the subway, public buses, carpooling. It would certainly make commuting that much more interesting!