The average family moves every six years, but a military family averages one move every three years. There are several steps you can take to make moving as stress-free as possible.

Have a plan A, B, C…

It can take around 2.5 months to plan, pack, unpack and adjust to the new environment. It helps to realize that rarely does a move go exactly as planned. There may be expenses you haven’t budgeted for, the move may take longer than expected, or there may be a variety of unexpected crises. Hiring a professional moving company can alleviate many of your worries.

Too many things

Since military families can expect to be relocated at some point, it’s best to keep belongings to a minimum and think about what it would take to relocate. Sometimes you have to stay within weight restrictions, and that can be difficult if you haven’t planned ahead.

packaging

Make sure you are aware of all packaging requirements and restrictions. Are your items requiring special handling? Check the proper method to prepare items for shipment. If you ship abroad, make sure you know what is allowed to ship and if there are any other restrictions. If you’re moving within the United States, it’s often easier to handle moving professionals to pack your belongings.

your new neighborhood

Now that the mover has unloaded and unpacked your belongings, there is still work to be done. Before you moved in, you should have obtained copies of medical and school records. You should also have called ahead to set up the utilities in your new home and send your change of address to the post office, as well as to the companies you receive mail from. It’s a good idea to take some time before an accident or illness requiring medical care occurs to find your doctor and transfer records.

Introduce yourself to your neighbors and you’ll be surprised how quickly you’ll make friends. Take the whole family on a tour of the area to find the nearest grocery store and pharmacy, stop by the kids’ school and see what there is to do in the area. This will make everyone feel more comfortable.

Remember that all this is also new for children

Pay attention to how your children are adjusting. Does it seem that they are adjusting to their new school? Are they making friends? Have your grades dropped? The new school might be teaching at a different pace than the old school, so your child may need a tutor for a while to catch up. Talk to your children and let them know that you are interested in their feelings and that you are there to help them adjust.

Moving can be stressful, but if you plan ahead and take into account any issues that may arise, it can be a smoother transition. When you hire your moving company, make sure they are professional and qualified. Try to make the transition comfortable for your children. Change can be scary, but it can also be an opportunity for a new adventure.