It took you a long time to find the woman of your dreams and you were the luckiest man the moment she agreed to marry you. However, marriage is difficult and there are times when it seems like the two of you just can’t figure things out.

Some men often ask the question of how to win or win back their ex wife, especially after she has left home. This is tricky as you can’t just say sorry and expect him to come home. There are a few ways you can do to slowly win your wife back:

Give him the time he needs.

Let your wife spend some time alone, without you around. Give him time and space to think things through and calm down from all the anger. Give her as much time as she needs and be there when she is ready to talk.

Apologize first, more than anything.

The first thing that should come out of your mouth is that you feel it. Apologize for everything, especially all the things you’ve both been going through lately. Make him realize that you don’t want the yelling and anger anymore.

One more chance.

You’re lucky if your wife is willing to accept you right away, but if she’s hesitant, tell her to give you one more chance. This time, don’t waste the opportunity she offered you. Do your best with this opportunity.

Ask him to figure things out.

It is not enough that you do all the work. Talk some common sense to him and ask him to try to figure things out on his level. With both working for their marriage, it is impossible for things to remain the same as before.

Swear and be faithful to what you promised.

Give him a list of promises that you will keep wholeheartedly. When you make a promise, mean it. Don’t do it just for the sake of getting her back.

Court her every day.

No woman will be able to ignore a man who woos her every day. You don’t have to give him gifts and expensive things every day. Simply telling her how much you love her every moment you can will keep the fire and love going. You don’t have to be embarrassed if you sound corny.

Be faithful, patient, loving.

In other words, be the person you haven’t been for a long time. These qualities are what an ideal husband possesses. Although these are difficult for you to express, do not stop trying every hour of the day to day until the love you had years ago returns.